Men Must Strive to Stay Present In the Moment Following Lovemaking
San Francisco, CA -- (SBWIRE) -- 10/01/2012 -- While many men seem to choose to drift into sleep post-coitus, there is enough documentation to assume that healthier relationships include interaction after sex.
“Pillow talk” is the term often applied to intimate interaction between partners that does not involve intensive sexual interaction. However, pillow talk can involve light touching and caressing as a form of pre- or post-coitus interaction.
According to a survey on post-sex behavior, men were found to want to fall asleep far more often than their female counterparts do. Men often feel more tired after sex as a result of extraneous effort as well chemical responses in the body. Meanwhile, women tend to want to linger and communicate, even if only casually, after sex.
Men utilize sex to burn calories and relieve stress. Because of this, men become very relaxed and are more often than not tired following sex. This causes men to easily drift into sleep following coitus. The release of Oxytocin and Prolactin hormones cause men to fall into a comforting state of relaxation. In fact, the attempts to cuddle and “pillow talk” only enhance the want to sleep for most males.
Unfortunately, consistently falling asleep after intercourse can prove damaging to a relationship, says Dr. Basanta R. Patre. “If a man falls asleep immediately after having sex instead of cuddling his partner, after certain time women start losing interest,” Patre says.
Dr. Patre provides some advice, including handholding or active cuddling. Men should also try to remind themselves that since pillow talk is an often a component of a healthy relationship, it is worthwhile to attempt to partake in such activity.
Not shutting one’s self down also shows the partner that you are open to a
second round’ if the mood strikes. This shows an interest in the person, rather than simply in the activity as a stress-reliever. Pillow talk should be utilized to enjoy one another’s company, and not simply talk about the day’s activities and errands. It is an opportunity to build intimacy, without the stresses of everyday-life.
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