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Site Unveils Insider Advice for Men Drowning in the Dating Pool

Posted: Tuesday, October 18, 2011 at 10:18 AM CDT

Salem, MA -- (SBWire) -- 10/18/2011 --Men struggling to lasso the girl of their dreams have a new guide to help them stay afloat in today’s dating pool. The blog How to Get a Girl to Like You recently released a new system to that promises to help men become more desirable to women.

The crux of the system is described by How to Get a Girl to Like You head Susan Jennings as “a straightforward way to play hard to get in 2011.” Jennings notes that one of the most common mistakes men make during courtship is trying too hard or being too clingy. Due to its importance in successful dating, Jennings made sure to hit this topic early in the life of her blog, which launched in August of 2011.

Jennings notes that it’s possible to play coy even if a man has strong feelings for another girl: “Most men who end up at How to Get a Girl to Like You are smart, funny and physically attractive men who simply lack the skill set to consistently attract the one they desire. A common pitfall I’ve noticed as a relationship coach is that men often come off as desperate –which is a turn-off for many women.”

How to Get a Girl to Like You’s new guide advises men to act nonchalant during the first few interactions. “Acting somewhat disinterested while still being friendly and open is one of the most important ways to fan the flames of attraction”, Jennings notes. She adds: “First impressions are massively important in dating. Acting like you’re a busy guy who may or may not be interested can really make you stand out from other guys.”

According to the guide, showing a bit of active disinterest can actually work in a man’s favor. Jennings adds, “Giving off the impression that you like the person, but only as a friend often leads to the women chasing the man, which is a role reversal for many of the visitors to How to Get a Girl to Like You. There’s no need to be rude of uncouth, but simply putting her in the friend zone is a great way to add a bit of power to the man’s side of the equation which is often relegated to the role of the pursuer.”

Men looking to increase their desirability by acting a bit more James Dean can read more by visiting How to Get a Girl to Like You at http://howtogetagirltolikeyoul.com.