So imagine the scene, you’re a young single guy and you’re out having a few drinks with friends. You spot a gorgeous girl across the bar and your mind starts racing about the possibility of being with her.
London, UK -- (SBWIRE) -- 11/07/2012 -- So imagine the scene, you’re a young single guy and you’re out having a few drinks with friends. You spot a gorgeous girl across the bar and your mind starts racing about the possibility of being with her. But before you know it, the fear of rejection has set in and rather than pluck up the courage to go over and strike up a scintillating conversation, you decide it’s safer to simply stay at your table and stare at her longingly from afar.
If this sounds familiar to you then you certainly aren’t alone. Although it’s customary for the guy to approach the girl to instigate romantic attachment, for many men this is actually a terrifying prospect. Most people, whether male or female, will feel a certain amount of insecurity in a normal social situation such as “does my hair look ok” “do I look good in this outfit” “am I putting on weight”.
But add to this a title wave of doubts that guys feel before they attempt to strike up a conversation with a gorgeous girl- “What can I say to her?” “should I be funny or serious” “what if she has a boyfriend” “will she be attracted to me” “how can I get her think I’m a nice guy” “What if she won’t even speak to me” “THIS IS PROBABLY GOING TO BE A COMPLETE DISASTER!”. After all, if the guy goes over and gets shot down, the girl actually INCREASES her credibility with her friends. But for a guy it completely sole destroying and can kill their confidence for good.
In past, there were 2 ways a guy could overcome these fears. Either not go over to the girl in the first place (the most common action) or get so drunk they don’t care what happens! Inevitably, unless the girl is as drunk as the guy, this second option doesn’t work and usually does more harm than good.
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